..MochaSista..

..day.three..

2012-01-04T17:01:00.000-08:00

day three ; something (one) i adore...

..day.two..

2012-01-04T16:49:00.000-08:00

day two; breakfast

all i had was a cup of tea

heres what i wanted ...

..day.one..

2012-01-04T16:14:00.000-08:00

day one ; me

..photo-a-day-challenge..

2012-01-04T16:02:00.000-08:00

i stole this from mizz scoop check her out over at mizzscoop.blogspot.com...thanks gurl!

anyway its a photo a day challenge stay tuned for my pics im a few days behind but i will catch up soon! lol oh yea and btw happy new year and all that go0d shyt :)

Runaway: short film; Kanye West

2010-10-25T12:11:00.001-07:00

..Bishop.Eddie.Longs.Sex.Scandal..

2010-09-24T15:00:00.000-07:00

There is a fourth young man claiming that he had sexual relations with Atlanta's Bishop Eddie Long read more about it here: [Source]

Lord knows i dont know what to think or say about this,

but FOUR ppl cant be lying!

come'on son!

i just hope there arent anymore.

what yall think about this?

..Question.For.my.Trey.Songz.fans..

2010-09-24T13:03:00.000-07:00

which of his last two albums (Ready/Passion Pain&Pleasure) are better?

im gonna have to say that he couldve waited a little longer before he came out with PPP

because the album could use some more work.

Now before all the Trey stans go HAM take some time to

think about it...

Don't get me wrong its an OKAY album but Ready was WAY better! i can listen to Ready from front to back without skipping any songs and on PPP i have about

4 favorite songz max...

Perhaps PPP needs to grow on me sommore

but honestly for now ima have to stick with Ready til he comes out with sumthing better.

what do you guys think? Let Me Know!

-or-

???

..love.this.song..

2010-09-01T20:31:00.000-07:00

i didnt even know this song had a video

til i looked it up just now..

Jasmine Sullivan "Holdin You Down"

another banger im gonna have to dedicate this one to my ex...

"i wanna go but i keep comin back... " ahh the story of my life!

..all.i.want.is.you..

2010-09-01T20:21:00.000-07:00

im crushin on sumone hard right now
so im gonna have to dedicate this song
(well maybe just the chorus) to him
::blushing::
tee hee...lol enjoy..

..wow..

2010-08-05T14:16:00.000-07:00

I havent posted anything on here in a little over a month, sorry guys, i been busy with school ( i was taking summer classes and actually today is my last day of classes until the fall semester so therefore i have a month to relax before i start taking classes full time again.) nuthing really exciting has happened to me over the past month except the fact that i met someone new , but i wont get too much into detail about him until things are officially legit, (ladies yall know what i mean by that)

Anyway i was looking thru my blog and noticed a few things first off, i have so many faithful followers and im thankful for u all whether u read my blog or not i appreciate all of ya. Secondly i realized that i need to get back to my roots like for those of u who know me from when i first started blogging i used to get into more personal and much more deeper posts. I used to get a lot of feedback because of my "keeping it real" and telling it like it is no holds barred but as for my later posts i started getting real generic and posting things about celebrities that i know u can probably read on another blog or hear on the radio.

What im tryna say is that what made me unique and set me apart from other bloggers in the beginning ive seemed to slowly slip away from it all. so this is sort of an apology letter for those of you who have been waiting patiently for me to get real again and quit it with the celebrity nonsense that most of you either dont give a damn about or have already read elsewhere.

From now on i will keep u updated on things i find interesting regarding certain ~~celebrity~~ topics but most importantly i will keep u guys updated more on my lovely life and post more meaningful content.

signing off.

urs truly,

MochaSista.

..trey songz. already taken..

2010-07-03T11:32:00.000-07:00

trey songz. already taken

i dont know how i feel about that title but nevertheless i still like the song :)

..trey songz. my moment..

2010-06-29T15:07:00.000-07:00

tonight @ 10/9central on BET

will u be tuned in?

[i know i will]

BET awards 2010

2010-06-28T12:08:00.000-07:00

Chris Brown

had the best performance of the night hands down. The MJ tribute was long overdue and he did it justice...

Oh yes! and I cant forget Alicia Keys climbing her preggo butt on top of a piano during the Prince tribute !!
and when the Queen Patti LaBelle kicked her shoes into the audience i was too thru!

anyway in case u missed any of the performances here u go....

http://www.mrworldpremiere.net/2010/06/2010-bet-awards-live-performances.html#more

love u all...stay posted.

until next time...CIAO!!

#RIP Gary Coleman

2010-05-28T12:36:00.000-07:00

1968-2010

..trey.songz.new.video..

2010-05-26T20:05:00.001-07:00

i love it!

..50.is.that.you??..

2010-05-26T19:58:00.000-07:00

..avant.makin.good.love..

2010-05-22T21:27:00.001-07:00

throwback!!!

..in.case.u.missed.it..

2010-05-21T22:30:00.000-07:00

tia&tamera on wendy.

i absolutely love these two!!
ever since way back in the day
when they starred on sister sister
they've definitely grown up beautifully!!

..janet.jackson..

2010-05-21T22:05:00.000-07:00

if u havent heard by now ..

Janet chopped most of her hair off

what yall think???

you may not like it but..

i absolutely LOVE it!

..drake..

2010-05-12T18:12:00.000-07:00

what ya'll think?

new music: beyonce

2010-05-04T13:09:00.001-07:00

"Why Don't You Love Me" - Beyoncé from Beyoncé on Vimeo.

..is.that.u.trey???..

2010-04-30T13:28:00.001-07:00

..new.music..

2010-04-20T11:58:00.000-07:00

..reality.tv..

2010-04-11T22:12:00.000-07:00

hey guys i havent posted in a while ... hope u all are doing well cause im doing good!

anyway lemme get right into it i just finished not too long ago finished watching a few reality tv shows and i must admit like i know many of u all are im hooked but i see that from now on my sunday nights are gonna be jam packed with television....first i watched an episode of Sunday Best Season 3 with my mom and it was hella funny with all the auditions in detroit if u missed it im sure they'll repeat it ...its BET what the heck u expect?!

amyway next i watched:

then i watched:

and last but not least i watched:

i would get into a summary of each one but that would be too much to type and im kinna tired but basically i liked basketball wives the best because it was huge a display of a hot mess...and i will be tuning in next week.

did any of u tune in to any of these shows? if so what did u think???

..erykah.badu..

2010-03-28T19:28:00.000-07:00

what yall think about this video???

hate it //love it?

..random.thought..

2010-03-28T19:24:00.000-07:00

am i the only one who thinks that

amber rose& nicki minaj

need to come out with their own line of

leggings?

#imjustsayin

..im.not.gon.lie..

2010-03-13T18:46:00.000-08:00

i have definitely neglected this blog for a while now since ive been back in school (started in jan) ive been on my grind, so i havent had much time to keep up with this shit. i promise i will be back and updating u more regularly than once or twice a month. i know they say a promise is comfort to a fool but hopefully my actions will prove my promise to be true. love you all for following! :)

..gaga f beyonce.telephone..

2010-03-12T13:26:00.000-08:00

okay so i for one loved the video and everything about it if u thought otherwise, ur a hater. this video was epic. if u didnt like it then i advise u go sit down sumwhere and complain to sumone who cares.
lol *smo0ches*

..ask.me..

2010-03-06T21:12:00.000-08:00

http://www.formspring.me/vinciathadiva

for those of you who dont know what formspring.me is

its a website where u can go to ask ppl anonymous questions

...ask away ppl ! try to make the questions interesting.

..alice.in.wonderland..

2010-03-06T19:04:00.000-08:00

i seen it and i loved it!

who seen it?

what are ur thoughts?

..treyz.new.video..

2010-03-01T11:35:00.000-08:00

Trey Songz: Neighbors Know My Name

..comedian.lil.duval.goes.in.on.natalie.from.bad.girls.club..

2010-02-22T21:11:00.000-08:00

..oh.em.gee!.remember this???..

2010-02-11T14:08:00.000-08:00

every black girl i know had one of these back in the day !!!! lol

..rihanna.rude.boy.video..

2010-02-11T08:50:00.000-08:00

last nights bad girls club was hilarious!!

2010-02-10T09:41:00.000-08:00

if u missed it i hope u catch the rerun

cause all kinds of sh!t was goin down LOL

who seen it??

..grammys.red.carpet..

2010-02-01T12:36:00.000-08:00

FAB or FUG?

in my opinion jhud looked fab

and as much as i dislike her keri hilson

didnt look too bad either...

as for the rest i'll let u be the judge :)

...

who had the best/worse
look of the night?

..what.does.your.sleep.position.say.about.you??..

2010-01-30T18:35:00.000-08:00

What your sleeping position says about you ...

Foetus

Those who curl up in the foetus position are described as tough on the outside but sensitive at heart. They may be shy when they first meet somebody, but soon relax. This is the most common sleeping position, adopted by 41% of the 1,000 people who took part in the survey. More than twice as many women as men tend to adopt this position.

Log

Lying on your side with both arms down by your side. These sleepers are easy going, social people who like being part of the in-crowd, and who are trusting of strangers. However, they may be gullible.

Yearner

People who sleep on their side with both arms out in front are said to have an open nature, but can be suspicious, cynical. They are slow to make up their minds, but once they have taken a decision, they are unlikely ever to change it.

Soldier

Lying on your back with both arms pinned to your sides. People who sleep in this position are generally quiet and reserved. They don't like a fuss, but set themselves and others high standards.

Freefall

Lying on your front with your hands around the pillow, and your head turned to one side. Often gregarious and brash people, but can be nervy and thin-skinned underneath, and don't like criticism, or extreme situations.

Starfish

Lying on your back with both arms up around the pillow. These sleepers make good friends because they are always ready to listen to others, and offer help when needed. They generally don't like to be the centre of attention.

click this link to find out more about what your position says about u:
...

were the results true?

SOURCE

..love.these.pics..

2010-01-30T18:07:00.000-08:00

even tho the second one is a bit scary looking
they are both nice photos..

-model : Amber Rose
-photographer : Austin Powers

..all.i.can.say.is...

2010-01-30T17:44:00.000-08:00

w t f?

*blank stare*

L O L

..throwbaq.thursday..

2010-01-20T21:04:00.001-08:00

yeah i took it baq!

..wat.you've.all.been.waiting.for..

2010-01-20T12:25:00.000-08:00

the highlight of last nights
bad girls club

...lol hillarious...ENJOY!!

..text.vs.talk..

2010-01-19T14:43:00.000-08:00

which one do u do more frequently???

text or talk???

..ray.j..

2010-01-18T11:31:00.000-08:00

as we all know hes STILL lookin' for love...

with only 3 girls left this season

who do you think is gonna win???

Luscious

Mz. Berry

-or-

Platinum???

who do you want to win??

..haiti..

2010-01-14T19:19:00.000-08:00

As i was watching CNN my eyes began to form tears for all the people who are suffering in Haiti right now and especially for those who died from this disaster. My prayers go out to the family members who have lost someone and for those whose souls were lost in Haiti. May God be with them all.

Love,

..rihanna.topless.again..

2010-01-13T20:57:00.000-08:00

Rihanna on the new cover of W magazine.

i love the pics they're definitely more tasteful

than when she did the cover of GQ..

but thats just my opinion

what u think???

..watch.dis.lol..

2010-01-13T20:44:00.000-08:00

youtube comedian brian recaps badgirls ep 6 : hillarious!

..brief.recap..

2010-01-13T07:57:00.000-08:00

bad girls club ep 6:

"Paul & Kate plus Hate"

malibu's boyfriend comes to town and gets mixed up

into the whirlwind of madness at the Bad Girls Club.

Kendra finds a new boy toy.

Flo angrily expresses how kendra was behaving

like a "slut" and a "whore" in the club.

here is where the drama between 'malibu'

& 'the chin monster' begin.

flo disrespectfully blows smoke in kendras face&

kendra reacted by slapping flo in the face.

flo responded by giving kendra a manly push.

the girls come and break it up.

shortly afterwards chin monster threatens to throw a plant at malibu

for throwing her makeup out the window.

then , chin monster spit in malibus face. *gasp* blank stare...

here is where u would expect me to insert that malibu

beats natalies chin into the ground but she doesnt (-_-) *blank stare* again

cant wait til next week! lol

..c`mon.son..

2010-01-12T17:32:00.000-08:00

..breaking.my.addiction..

2010-01-08T16:20:00.000-08:00

its been 22 days since ive spoken to HIM. and im happy about that.. (^_^)
my goal is 100 days without any kind of contact with HIM..

when i found myself becoming addicted to someone who showed absolutely no interest in me...

i had to take a step back observe the situation and set a goal for myself...

No talking to HIM for 100 days..no texting. no accepting booty calls. no emails. no pop-up visits. etc.

& its all because of a few encouraging words from you guys i really appreciate all your support.

i know some of you are wondering what will i do after i reach my 100 day mark??., i honestly have no idea... Maybe i'll go out and celebrate! but for right now im just gonna worry about the days ahead..

yesterday i started missing and craving him something serious but i have to do this for myself.

i know i can do it. Once he realizes that i cut him off he'll probably call me and ask me what happen or maybe he'll just move on...

Something deep down inside is hoping that he calls and says that he'll try and treat me better cause hes realized what hes missing out on.

But why is it that when u want them to do something without telling them to do it they never do it??

Chances are he wont change but im hoping he will realize why i cut him off. lets just say this is his time out in the corner to realize what hes done wrong...

only problem with that is him not realizing why i put him on time out in the first place.

urs truly.,

Related Posts:
..Its.Complicated..
..So.theres.this.guy..

..recap..

2010-01-06T22:16:00.000-08:00

bad girls club episode 5
"Dont sweat the New B!tch"

two words to describe this episode: PURE trash!

this show is seriously like a
bad car accident on the side of the highway

u know its bad and u shouldnt stare

but u slow down and watch anyway..

kate began the show openly expressing that she didn't want to go to a "black sweaty" club *blank stare* i had to do a double take like "wtfshejustsay?" she later on apologized and said that she didnt mean anything by it....*side glance* yeah right --anyway ...

the girls reluctantly welcomed the new chic into the house and that was pretty much it.

the new girl ... shes not so cute but she seems like she likes to have fun she got naked and hopped in the pool on the first night and of course Florina needed a bib to catch the drool that was dribbling out of her mouth.

umm what else happened? the girls went out to the club and Natalie came home with some no - name buck-toof dude and let him sleep with her in her bed...im tryna think if i missed anything but everything else that happened is irrelevant the whole episode was irrelevant but i will be tuning in next week lol wont you???

heres the link to the preview for episode 6.

..reminder..

2010-01-05T15:02:00.000-08:00

DONT FORGET TO WATCH BAD GIRLS CLUB TONIGHT AT 10PM ON OXYGEN!!

..yummyness..

2010-01-05T14:34:00.000-08:00

eye candy _ Reggie Bush on
the Feb 2010 cover of Essence Mag...

i dont know bout yall but...

lmfao...what???

im just sayin!!!

..rihanna.moving.on..

2010-01-04T17:53:00.000-08:00

Rihanna allegedly has a new boo and his name is Matt Kemp..(he plays for the LADodgers) they were spotted together today in mexico kissing each others face off...she seems to be having a good time and so does he.. they rang in the new year together in Dubai where Rihanna performed at the Emirates Palace. i think they look go0d together...
what yall think??

..minaj.madness..

2010-01-04T14:22:00.000-08:00

smh ...cmon son!

this madness has got to STOP!!!

..rawr..

2010-01-04T13:44:00.000-08:00

*vommits* so THIS is what those ladies went GAAGAA over?? bwahahaha lmfao...its gotta be the money cause THIS doesnt turn me on not one bit....(smh) eww...

what yall think??

vanity fair _ feb 2010 issue.

..words.of.inspiration..

2010-01-04T11:56:00.000-08:00

i am the master or the victim of my attitude. its a matter of choice. who i am today is the result of choices i made yesterday. tomorrow i will become what i choose today. to change means to choose to change.

..its.complicated..

2010-01-01T14:54:00.000-08:00

I can't seem to find a way to get over him..

I can't seem to find a way to unlike him...

U ever been into sumbody that was just not that into u?

Well I'm on the receiving end of rejection, however I feel as though him not wanting me as much as I want him is making me want him more.

The only reason I feel sum sort of rejection is because he never expresses his feelings to me. And that really sucks, however I find myself making excuses for him and his behavior when in reality I need to just let him go.

I want to let him go because 1. he's already let go of me
and 2. it will allow me to move on to the next one without any baggage or feelings left lingering in the air.

basically what I'm saying is one door needs to close before I open another and me caring way too much for sumone who don't give two shits about me is seriously hindering me from being in a healty relationship with sumone who actually does care... *sigh* ... This is an issue that I clearly need to work on and for those of u who are quick to say drop him like a bad habit, just remember that's easier said than done...

this nigga is like my weakness... for the new year i feel like i need a new boo, dont get it twisted i got my priorities in order first and foremost above anything i want to get back in school and finish. but handling the situation i have with this guy difficult... i just want to move on -- but i cant. whats a woman to do???

..just.another.day..

2009-12-31T11:46:00.000-08:00

people seem to always make a big deal about new years eve.
i dont.

i dont see the point in making a big deal over it , its just another day in my book.

i wont be in times square or at home waiting for the ball to drop., instead i will be in church on my knees praying for a better year to come. i will be praying for my health, my wealth, my education, my family, my friends, and for better relationships with others.

don't worry i will pray for u guys as well ... anyway with that being said:

with love.,

..argh.frustrated..

2009-12-31T11:22:00.000-08:00

im trying to follow more than 300 blogs and blogger.com wont let me ...
is there any way i can follow more than 300 blogs---
does anyone know??? HELP ME PLEASE!!!

..music.monday..

2009-12-28T11:02:00.000-08:00

woke up today with this throw back on my mind :)

click play & enjoy..

Lyrics:

Yo heh heh tell him it's like uhh you know uhh
Sweet sweet SWEET tell him

Let me be patient let me be kind
Make me unselfish without being blind
Though I may suffer I'll envy it not
And endure what comes
Cause he's all that I got and
tell him...

Tell him I need him [yeah]
Tell him I love him [tell him]
And it'll be alright
Telll himmm be alright be alright
Tell him tell him I need him
Tell him I love him
It'll be alright

Now I may have faith to make mountains fall
But if I lack love then I am nothin' at all
I can give away everything I possess
But left without love then I have no happiness
I know I'm imperfect [I know I'm imperfect]
& not without sin [& not without sin]
But now that I'm older all childish things end
and tell him...

Tell him I need him [yeah]
Tell him I love him [tell him]
And it'll be alright
*Background singing* Telll himmm be alright be alright
Tell him tell him I need him
Tell him I love him
It'll be alright

[Bridge]
I'll never be jealous
And I won't be too proud
Cause love is not boastful
Oooh and love is not loud
Tell him I need him
Tell him I love him
Everything's gonna be alright [w/ adlibs]
ieee iee ieee iee iee iee iee iee

Now I may have wisdom and knowledge on Earth
But if I speak wrong then what is it worth?
See what we now know is nothing compared
to the love that was shown when our lives were spared
and tell him...

Tell him I need him [yeah]
Tell him I love him [tell him]
And it'll be alright
Telll himmm be allright be alright
Tell him tell him I need him
Tell him I love him
It'll be alright.

..im.baaaack..

2009-12-27T20:03:00.000-08:00

did u miss me?? lol prolly not --- but thats cool i didn't miss u either ;)

so basically to sum up my holiday weekend, I spent time with the fam on Christmas day until like 2am- spent majority of my day in bed Saturday, went to church today (came home and then returned to church later on in the evening for a Christmas Program- which was really nice., any event or function that serves food after is a goo0d event to me LoL) but yeah thats about it...nothing overly exciting .

this weekend i realized how good it is to give and not always hold my hand out expecting to receive.

[speaking of receiving i didnt receive anything excessive - i got a pair of socks , a daily planner and a scarf :/ but hey whos complaing?? :) my real gift was the gift of giving <-- that was corny right, yeah i know. but hey its the truth. to see my fam happy made me happy.]

anyway...

how was your weekend?? care to share?

..merry.christmas.everyone..

2009-12-24T09:38:00.000-08:00

Since i may not be on here tomorrow im wishing everyone a

and to those who dont celebrate christmas ..

Happy Holidays :)

much love.,

..100.followers..

2009-12-22T20:41:00.001-08:00

this is how i'm feeling right now...

-i remember last month wen i only had 2.

i ♥ you for following.

much love.,

..bad.girls.club.episode.4.recap..

2009-12-22T20:18:00.000-08:00

for the amount of hype that was built around this episode i was not pleased at all...

smh. i shoulda known - i thought the whole show was boring except for the last 5 minutes when portia and natalie fought.

basically natalie implied that portia wasnt a good mom because she never mentioned anything about her daughter and she never called her daughter back. natalie was toatally out of place for bringing up portias child and she deserved to get her a$s beat i dont care if she got sucker punched or shot the fair one..either way natalie wouldve still lost .. too bad portia got sent home...so long Ms. pencil brows..

"And then there were six..."

urs truly,

..mah.bo0skie..

2009-12-22T12:44:00.000-08:00

Congrats to *mah booskie* Trey Songz
covering the Jan issue of Honey Magazine!!!

(see images below)

not exactly what i would call "panty droppin" pics!

but they are definitely grown man sexy ;)

..what yall think??

click here for the full interview @ HoneyMag.com

ENJOY!!

..about.me..

2009-12-20T15:40:00.000-08:00

Many of u are following me but few of you KNOW who I really am so I figured I would elaborate on my brief 'about me' section...as you already know I'm an up and coming journalist who has a serious passion for God, fashion, music & anything girly even though I can be a tom boy at times (im down for some sweats and a tshirt any day!)...I live in Queens, New York (born and raised) but i lived in Pennsylvania for almost 4 years while attending Penn State University...

I left school during my senior year and came back to New York due to extreme stress inability to pay my tuition (which was $24,000/yr). That was two years ago and now I'm getting ready to begin a new chapter in my life which is to first and foremost re-attend school in January of 2010.

2010 will mark a year of new beginnings for me, and i really look forward to it so wish me luck!!!

As far as my "love life" goes I've been talking to this guy since April but he's about to be cut off (if you want to know why click here: ..so.theres.this.guy..).

Other than what I mentioned above, I live a pretty simple (and boring life) lol., I stay with my family for now (my parents, and my brother who's 21) but I'm working on getting a new car and an apartment of my own soon. I try to attend church every sunday (which is especially difficult when im out partying all night saturday). Hey nobody is perfect! lol I've cut back on my "clubbing/ladies nights out" because I seriously need to save my money for school and my car.

Hopefully this gives you a bit of insight on who I am I will get more into specifics as the days go by...

Anything else you wanna know??? just ask!! :)

Much Love.,

..& the winner is..

2009-12-18T20:33:00.000-08:00

Since er'body wanna give out awards,

\I've decided t0 give a special award of my own to the blogs I LOVE the most based on their overall content& creative layouts.

the blogs i ♥ are as follows:

.Malibu Mara.
...yup, simone be talking shit
.The 411 On Everything Glam.
// *GLAM GIRL$.
// Ze! Diary //
2BD
Dulce Candy
Her Proverbs 31
KidduNot.com
kiss.the.pen
MISSAMAZIN.COM
♫ the.future.society ♪ - Music|Art|Fashion
♥[.::LiiFE, LOVE, SEX && ALL THAT JAZZ::.]♥
!*:::::[☮.♥.n.☺]™:::::*!
[the life & times of ; BONNIE BLUNT$].

For those of you who i have listed (above.)

In order to accept this award,
all you have to do is (right click& save) & post it to your blog
(dont 4get to shout me out)

& pass it on to the blogs you favor the most...

yup its that simple! No need to thank me, you deserve it my loves!!! ENJOY!! :)

Love, Peace & Hair Grease.

Signing out,

..oh.yeah.yeah.yeah!..

2009-12-17T19:36:00.000-08:00

HOT or NOT???

[comments and reactions below]

..bad.girls.club.preview.ep.4..

2009-12-16T12:25:00.001-08:00

will you be watching?

..bad.girls.club..

2009-12-16T12:21:00.000-08:00

If you haven't watched/seen this show already u must have been living under a rock for the past 3weeks!

Last nights episode was crazy and from the looks of it previews and snippets of next weeks episode its going to get even crazier!

In case you havet seen it heres a recap; Natalie the chic who claims she "Runs LA!!" (in episode 2) slapped kendra in the face and kendra did absolutely nothing about it ; of course natalie shouldve gotten sent home but it was up to kendra to make that decison.

Kendra thinks that by keeping Nat in the house and remaining frenz with Nat that she'll have connections and be able to "network" better while in los angeles if she keeps Nat around. Anyway after she made her decision the gurls decide to form pact against nat&kendra because of kendras decision, and nat is obviously happy because she has kendra on her side.

So now later on in the episode all seven of the girls :

(Annie: Ms.squeaky annoying voice, Portia: Ms. bad weave with drawn on eyebrows, Florina. Ms. Butch aka the motha of the house, Kate: Ms. Malibu Barbie, Amber: Ms.Angry b!tch and of course Natalie Ms. "I RUN LA!" &Kendra the two who got into the first fight of the season and are now bffs for life!) go to a poolside party at a hotel and everything is going fine until about 5 of the girls want to go home so four of the girls minus kendra natalie and Flo get in the car and leave Ms. Butch behind. Butch gets home and flips out on everyone because they left her at the hotel party with nat and kendra. She says she can't trust anyone and basically swears that she can't be frenz with any of them.

But then, all of a sudden she starts spending time with nat and kendra. Anyway to make a long story short the house is now serparated into two clicks according to Ms. Angry b!tch "there are now two groups the 'classy girls' and the 'trashy girls'" I just can't wait to see Natalie and Portia aka pencil brows go at it in next weeks episode. Omg can't wait !!! Lol.

Bad Girls Club airs on Oxygen Tuesdays @ 10pmEST
...dont miss it! :)

..shout.out..

2009-12-15T13:10:00.000-08:00

to all my new followers! :)

from urs truly,

..s.m.h..

2009-12-15T10:42:00.000-08:00

smh this is a poor cry out for attention...if that was the case she might as well have done the cover for Playboy im not surprised at all that she did this she wouldve been better off making this her album cover perhaps she wouldve gotten more sales...

what??...im just sayin!

..lol..

2009-12-14T18:00:00.000-08:00

lmao did anybody see nicki minaj on 106and park with robin thicke today?

a HOT mess!

okay first robin thicke comes out in a tight black velvet suit and performs 'SEX THERAPY' for a crowd of screaming 14-18 year old girls SMH ( A W K W A R D ) then later on in the show he performs 'Shaking it for Daddy' and Nicki Minaj comes out in a tight ugly red sparkling dress with her non matching signature pink extensions all i can say is O M G of course all the guys in the crowd went wild including terrance j who always acts a fool on that show. S M H just another reason why im beginning to think i need to stop watchin BET....

-the end.

in case u havent heard the song yet heres

Robin Thicke f. Nicki Minaj Shakin it for Daddy..

heres the actual performance:

..so.theres.this.guy..

2009-12-14T12:48:00.000-08:00

okay so im in a bit of a dilemma and i need your help...who you?? yes you.. lol im a bit iffy about posting my personal business out there for the world to see because it makes me so vulnerable but bare with me as i try to express myself the best way i can...

so theres this guy ive been "dating" since april and im really into him, im sure he knows it but ive never told him ; the reason why i havent said anything is because he hasnt said anything to me ( as far as his feelings goes )... he has never (..maybe once) told me he likes me so im feeling a bit insecure; like "maybe this guy is just not that into me." hes quick to call me when its time for us to have "relations" but as far as us ever going out or doing anything outside the bedroom we dont do much. what i want to know is,

is this guy into me or is he just after one thing?

..............

[...what u just read above is a post ive been keeping in my drafts for the past couple of days because i've just been too scared to broadcast my true feelings but i feel that if i cant keep it real with you who the hell can i keep it real with?!...]

i already know the answer to my question and ive decided last night after i wrote down the pros and cons of our half a$s relationship.. even tho the pros outweighed the cons// the cons had a lot more meaning to me (for example the pros were more like his physical attributes, but when i looked at the cons ; they affected how i was actually feeling & how he really feels towards me --i will post SOME of the pros and cons below )

PROS: Physically Attractive , strong minded , independent, employed etc.

CONS: never calls/texts me , doesnt care for me, doesnt communicate his feelings etc.

with that being said i need do get over this guy -- cause he is NOT treating me how i should be treated. i know that if i cut him off he will realize that he had a good woman but he f#$%@d up and lost her.

oh well ....On to the next one!!!

urs truly,

..unforgivable..

2009-12-13T12:13:00.000-08:00

Ever hate someone to the point of unforgiveness??

I know I have!! But I have learned that if you hold a grudge against someone this can block your blessings from God. Have u been praying to God and you feel like he's not answering? Have you been asking God for a blessing but it just seems like God won't bless you no matter how many times u ask? Well one or both of the following may be happening:

1) The answer to your question may be "No." or
2) You may be holding a grudge against someone not even knowing it and that could easily block ur blessings from God.

Matthew Chap 5:22-25 (NLT) reads; ...I say if you are angry with someone, you are subject to judgement ! ..if you are standing before ... God and you suddenly remember that someone has something against u...go and be reconciled with that person. Come to terms quickly with your enemy before it is too late..."

I can admit i am guilty of holding a grudge towards someone and not until i read that scripture did i realize that i am not only hurting that person but i am hurting myself even more , if that person in your life is someone who has done something to harm a loved one or just hates you for no apparent reason or for reasons of his / her own , as hard as it may seem you should forgive them . do you want to reach the gates of heaven only to be turned away because you have hated someone in your heart? [ Matthew 6:15 (NLT) But if you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins. ] No one wants to go to Hell . So, Why not make things right while you are on Earth rather than wait until its too late?

Matthew 5 goes on to say in verse 44 ".. love your enemies, Pray for those who persecute you!"

The best thing you could do is pray for your enemies.

Then sit back and watch the results.

Regardless of how hard you feel it may be to pray for your enemies do it anyway and watch how God will bless you.

urs truly,

..inseperable..

2009-12-12T13:47:00.000-08:00

mariah f [mah bo0skie] trey songz - inseperable

HOT or NOT???

..holiday.spirit..

2009-12-11T11:54:00.000-08:00

with christmas exactly two weeks away im just not feeling it - is anyone else feeling like this???
i know u all heard it already a million times before but "we're in a recession &
times are hard!"
i hope my frenz arent expecting anything this year 'cause i sure aint got the money to be buying gifts.. [i sound so cheap i know!!] hmm ... maybe i'll make something! a trip to Michael's [arts and crafts store] aint neva hurt nobody and besides whenever u make a gift it shows that your giving from your heart and not from your pocket....i dont know guys
..any ideas? what are your holiday plans??
..what are you getting your fam& frenz for the holidays? let a sista know cause right now im clueless...

..say.it.aint.so!..

2009-12-09T10:49:00.000-08:00

according to *friends in my head MediaTakeOut.com

Jay-z and Beyonce
are moving to Las Vegas!

...does anyone even care?

i mean me personally i think they BOTH need to lay low for about a year...cus im a little sick of hearing about them - especially B...anyway -- for more info on the move click here

..for.my.trey.loverz..

2009-12-07T18:18:00.000-08:00

trey songz.one love

..music.monday..

2009-12-07T17:55:00.000-08:00

Trey Songz f. Usher & Keri Hilson

I Invented Sex Remix

now u know i love any and everything that comes out of treys mouth but as for that stranger b!tch keri hilson i dont know if i like seeing/hearing about her being anywhere near my man! (she betta hope for her sake that she recorded this in a separate studio) lol what? im just sayin!..anyway what are ur thoughts on this remix???

HOT or NOT???

[comment below]

...death.to.the.barbie.face!..

2009-12-07T15:48:00.000-08:00

okay so today im on one of my fave sites: necolebitchie.com and i find out that female rappers/entertainers TRINA and NICKI MINAJ celebrated their bdays this past weekend in ATL.. *side note in case u were wondering TRINA is now 31 (she was born dec 3 1978*) and NICKI turns 25 tomorrow, dec 08..

anyway back to the reason why i decided to create this blog; i was looking thru sum pics and low and behold i definitely wasnt surprised when i saw this ...

i love you nicki but this has got to STOP!!! its NOT cute ; especially wen you got a whole bunch of other chicks in the club posin with the exact same face on!! please if u think u are a barbie or ever called urself one #hoehaveaseat!!! i cant stress the following words enuf : "pretending to be a barbie in real life is NOT cute!! so please please please stop it!!!"

[ death to the barbie face* ]

... anyway im gone!! on to the next one!!!

urs truly,

..make.up.giveaway..

2009-12-07T13:59:00.000-08:00

click here for more details :)

..OH.EM.GEE!..

2009-12-05T20:19:00.000-08:00

if i hear of or see one more interview with chris brown or rihanna talkin about their "incident" that happened fifty-eleven years ago...

i am going to SCREAM!!!

they have officially milked that cow dry + beat it to death resurrected it + beat it do death again! its a done deal ..we get the point ..move the #@$% on already!!

...

with that being said:
You may now return to your regularly scheduled programming :)

..things.i.love..

2009-12-05T18:09:00.000-08:00

GOD. chocolate.jamaican food. gummi bears. bear hugs. vanilla milk shakes. sour powers. "now-ah-laduhz:" . entennmens cinnabuns.island views. inside jokes. hot cholcolate. mah MOMMY. swimming. dimples. cookie dough icecream. smell good candles. "after hours". full moons. cute puppies. cute babies. reading. writing. singing. dancing. club hopping. laughing til' my tummy hurts. eskimo kissez. being held. mcdonalds (lol dont front) . traveling. SALES. shopping. red lobster cheddar biscuits. massages. TREY SONGZ. kissing. sex on the beach ;) [the drink!] . being carefree.good music. laser tag.

[what are some things you love???]

..annoying.ex..

2009-12-03T22:00:00.000-08:00

So today he decides to pop back into my life; unexpectedly and definitely uninvited and unwanted. Why does he always do this ? Whenever I'm doing go0d HE just pops up like a friggin idiot in a box (ie. Imagine jack-in- the- box but instead of jack out pops this idiot) if u haven't caught on by now I'm talking about my ex -- and he's my ex for a reason - I dare not say his name because if I do he might read this and try to do a drive by on my house (lol --never that) anyway -- he's seriously annoying me and I politely asked him if he could "please stop texting me" his response was something like "okay I got u" wtf is that suppose to mean? U got what?? U got ME?? No you don't cus if u had me u wouldn't be hawkin me down every chance u get via aim and txt. Lolol I reeeaaaally don't want to be mean but damn! Can a sistah breathe?! With that being said I'm going to bed g'nite folks!!

PS ever had an annoying ex??
How did u get rid of them?? Please do share. :)

..pleasure.p?!.does.the.p.stand for pervert??..

2009-12-03T18:59:00.000-08:00

there have been rumors circulating the internet that pleasure p former lead singer of pretty ricky is a child molester! heres how wordonthestreetsmag.com is reporting it..

Rumors: Is Pleasure P A Child Molester?

"This is one nasty shocking rumor. Pleasure P the former lead singer in the group Pretty Ricki is being accused by an assistant/daughter to the lawyer who allegedly represented him in a child molestation case in Florida. She states she has documented proof of the case that Pleasure P AKA Marcus Cooper in fact did Molest several children while he was a member of the group. Our lead writer Isis Wisdom logged on to her twitter acct and found this from a member by the name of @AGoldsteinGirl:

According to her tweets on her page the child agency Child Net which is who get’s called in situations like this, were the ones who brought the case against him.

Wow not only that we reached out to the group Pretty Ricki and was told this:
“Unfortunately due to Pleasure P’s lawyer filing an injunction against us from speaking, we are not at liberty to speak about the case.” How ever we will let it be known that we did kick him out of the group, he did not leave on is own free will. We did a deal with Atlantic via Craig Calman that we would let him out of the group if they bought out his contract with us and Blue Star which is the official label of Pretty Ricki. We are not at liberty to discuss why we kicked him out of the group.
~Pretty Ricki

Speak about the case? What case? You mean he went to court for child molestation? When? Is this the reason why he is no longer with the group? All we can say is we hope that is not true. Journalist Isis Wisdom is on the case story developing…

Update: The CEO Of Blue Star has requested an exclusive interview. According to him he was there in the court room when it all went down. Not only that since we broke the story, it is being reported that it was a boy he molested."

Pleasure P later released this statement:

“All of the recent rumors and accusations that are being circulated about me are 100% false. They are disgusting and vile; and they are being spread by individuals with their own sick agendas. The purported documents that are also being circulated are forgeries. I have never met or known anyone by the name of “AGoldstein” or Laura Goldstein or Ashley Goldstein, which I believe are fictitious names. I have never been represented by an attorney named Goldstein. For someone to go to such depths to assassinate my character and slander my good name is truly criminal. My attorneys are investigating this matter and will take all necessary and appropriate action to protect my name and reputation.”

...what yall think???

i think this scandal is worse den rkelly's i hope its not true but things arent lookin so go0d for pleasure p at all!!!

..throwbaq.thursday..

2009-12-03T11:24:00.000-08:00

USHER - U remind Me

I was listening to this song today and it took me back down memory lane to wen it first came out , the song is really cute and it has such a different concept to it ; pretty much its a well thought out song [unlike songs that come out today ie: 'You're a Jerk' or whatever the name of that song is] ...now of days artists dont think they just put together words that rhyme..anyway back to my point-- todays Throwbaq of the day is Usher's U Remind Me ... <<<click the link to hear it

P.S. would u ever date someone that looks just like your ex??

urs truly,

[comment below.

i really would love to know your answers]

..attn.followers!..

2009-12-02T19:38:00.000-08:00

thanks s0 much 4 following meeeee!!

[you make me love what i do even more each day
..& i mean that from the heart)

i <3 u all

*mwah*

from urs truly,

..random.post..

2009-12-02T10:46:00.000-08:00

so far *ice cube voice* "today was a go0d day"...

nothing exciting happened im just happy to be alive..

thats something we can sometimes take for granted

waking up everyday is not a coincidence its a privilege

i dont want to sound cliche but live each day to the fullest

because u never know which day will be your last,

..just think if u had 24 hours to live what would u do???

..worlds.aids.day..

2009-12-01T13:29:00.000-08:00

Did you know that each year around 2 million people die from AIDS-related illnesses???

Thats something that we all should be aware of.

AIDS (Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome ) is serious and is caused by HIV, HIV is a virus that gradually attacks immune system cells. As HIV progressively damages these cells, the body becomes more vulnerable to infections, which it will have difficulty in fighting off. It is at the point of very advanced HIV infection that a person is said to have AIDS. It can be years before HIV has damaged the immune system enough for AIDS to develop.

There is no cure for AIDS so the only way to stay safe is to be aware of how HIV is transmitted and how to prevent HIV infection.

HIV can be transmitted in three main ways:

Sexual transmission
Transmission through blood
Mother-to-child transmission

The best way to prevent yourself from contracting HIV/AIDs is to:

remain abstinent (not have sex at all)
Be faithful to one partner or have fewer partners
Most importantly, wrap it up!! meaning use condoms every time!

Its important to read about and educate yourself and others about HIV & AIDS not only just today but always.

BE SAFE PEOPLE!!! & dont forget to WRAP IT UP!!!

[source: http://www.avert.org/prevent-hiv.htm]

..sweet.dream.or.a.beautiful.nightmare..

2009-11-30T17:22:00.000-08:00

okay so i had the weirdest dream last night...i was killing and slaughtering everybody like i was some type of ninja warrior but the twist of it all was that i was a

kindergarten teacher by day and a killer by night.. and i was only killing men who wore all black that attacked me first...i felt so powerful like no one could stand in my way but waht i didnt understand was why all these men were attacking me , with knives and all kinds of weaponry. heres what i found out according to dreammoods.com ;

To dream that you attack someone, represents pent-up frustration and anger. You feel that you have been wronged, but that it is easier and safer for you to express your anger in your dream.

To dream that you are being attacked by someone, signifies questions to your character and the need to defend yourself. You are feeling stressed, vulnerable and helpless. You may also be faced with difficult changes in your waking life. Dreaming of an attack provides a way for you to confront these situations that you may be avoiding in real life.�

So after reading that im still clueless because none of that is true. *shrugs shoulders*

oh well...i guess you can count this as another random blog because i seriously have no conclusion for this one...

urs truly,

..trey.songz.pt2..

2009-11-30T16:57:00.000-08:00

okay so mah bo0skie TREY is suppose to be coming out with a video for "Yo Side of the Bed" and guess whos gonna be featured as his leading lady??? --- be prepared to gag with me....KERI HILSON [*vommit*] ugh *rolls eyes* we all know how i feel about that chick...anyway only because of TREY i cant wait to see the video....i def will be posting the video when it is released...stay tuned...

..soul.train.awards.pt2..

2009-11-29T23:58:00.000-08:00

okay so overall TERAJI P HENSON & TERRANCE HOWARD did a good job of hosting the awards show (round of applause to them)

...now lets get down to the nitty gritty ... im not one to gossip buuuuut i personally think those two are sleeping together (you aint hear it from me...im just sayin they were too "intimate" if u know what i mean..lol...i kno you're probably saying 'But Vincia they're just acting'...nah to me it looks like something more i can just feel it!)

Moving on....Highlights of the show in no particular order was of course mah bo0skie TREY SONGZ who performed twice once with TONI BRAXTON who he kissed on stage (i gotta have a talk with him about that..i mean like seriously!? lol) and then he performed "Invented Sex" the non-DRAKE version Thank God!...(im bout sick of his rapping/singing behind anyway).
Moving on.... of course

BEYONCE (aka The Entertainment Queen in my eyes) stole the show without even being there she won not one, not two, but THREE awards! (Best Female Artist, Song of the Year and Album of the Year) i mean like seriously where is she gonna put them ?? maybe she can toss a few over to SOLANGE cause we all know she definitely didnt win anything in a long time or better yet how about NeVeR! (lol)

Speaking of SOLANGE , KERI HILSON beat her in the Best New Artist category, "MISS KERI BABY" as she calls herself, also won best collaboration for "Knocks you Down" f/ krazy KANYE and NE-YO (who were both M.I.A--hmm i wonder why...lol)...

CHRISETTE MICHELE performed her song "Blame it on Me" one of the many songs i LOVE off her Epiphany album had the best vocals of the night hands down! besides the legendary CHAKA KHAN of course who was recognized in a tribute along side mr CHARLIE last name WILSON. MICHAEL JACKSON was recognized for Entertainer of the Year which in my opinion i believe would've been given to BEYONCE if MJ wasn't dead...

(yeah i said it)...anyway...

KERI HILSONs performance was one word....

and i seldom use that word but its best fitting for this scenario...she performed a medley of not one or two but THREE SoNgZ i thought i was gonna DIE!! she can NOT in any way shape or form perform if your a Keri Hilson fan, u can unfollow me now because theres alot more where that came from!! (you've been warned) lol...another highlight was the MOTOWN tribute JOHNNY GILL sang "My My My" and boy-oh-boy did he Rip the stage! ol ' boy STILL got it! and he definitely showed these young r&b kids how its truly done...oh yeah and i cant forget

BOYZ II MEN they sang "End of the Road" and I was definitely singing along...welp, if i forgot anyone i apologize but thats the end of my recap... im goin' to bed...Goodnite!

urs truly,

..soul.train.awards..

2009-11-29T14:10:00.000-08:00

dont forget the soul train awards hosted by Teraji P henson& Terrance Howard will air tonight @ 9pm sharp on BET ..check back later for my recap!!

..holiday.shopping.tips..

2009-11-28T05:22:00.000-08:00

If any of you are anything like me you stayed home yesterday on Black Friday. Theres just something about being bomabarded with shopping bags and having my toes rolled over with baby carriages that just makes me want to crawl up into a hole and hide until all the mad-shoppers (yes thats what i call them) go away ...However, It's that time of year again -- 'tis the season to give gifts!, For those of you who used to be generous givers, you may not feel in too much of a giving mood this year., Yes times are hard for most of us, but here are some smart shopping tips that will get you back into the giving spirit -- and will save you time and money.

Fashion Blogger, MalibuMara would agree that a bargain at any time of year is a great one. In her blog she mentions that she stayed home on Black Friday as well but offered up some great deals, keep reading to find some great discount codes that will help you get more bang for your buck. But first,

What to do before you shop:

Print coupons off the Internet., Coupons are one of the best ways to save money and there are plenty available online. Check out couponcabin.com, couponalbum.com and ebates.com for further information on how to get printable coupons. There may also be coupons available in store or on the store's actual Website -- don't forget to check for those as well.

Leave early so you can arrive early. In this case, "the early shopper gets to take advantage of the best sale." So get there early, you can thank me for it later.

Don't forget to bring water and snacks so, you won't have to spend any unnecessary money on food or drinks. Wear comfy shoes -- heels are not a good idea if you're going to be walking from store to store.

What to do when you shop:

First and foremost, have a budget and stick to it to avoid impulse buying. Plan ahead of time -- when you plan ahead, you know in advance what you're going to get., If it's not on your list don't get it -- stick to your budget!

Remember -- just because it's advertised doesn't mean its the cheapest., Always check for unadvertised specials.

Shop with Cash-Only. Keep your cash in an envelope, it will help keep your spending in check and will help you keep in mind how much you have already spent. When it's gone its gone, and you can't spend any more money. If you must, leave your credit card and checkbook at home.
When shopping for clothing, don't be afraid to search through the clearance rack.
Due to volume, discounts at larger stores are generally cheaper than smaller ones.
Remember that no particular store has the lowest price on ALL items.
Remember the rule of three: If an item can be used in three ways, you will not be wasting your money.
Beware of fancy packaging, it will only cost you more money.
To avoid crowds, do not shop after work or on paydays.

If you are a person who, hates long lines, and being trampled and knocked over with shopping bags and baby carriages as i mentioned earlier, try to shop online. Shopping online is a great way to shop without having to worry, plus it's great knowing that you can shop from the comfort of your own home. Search for promo codes online (in your search engine, just type in the words "promotional code +, the name of the store that you are purchasing the item from" and the promotional code if available should come up).

MalibuMara says that discount codes are "a good thing because sometimes you don't want to pay for shipping, so a 20% off code can offset that OR you can just get free shipping altogether!" She offers up some great codes here: at Fredflare.com, the code: 'FF17' Gets you 20% off and the code 'Present' Gets you free shipping. At Karmaloop.com, 'TASH09' Gets 15% off, and at Urban Outfitters for 20% off you can use the code 'GIFTED'. She also recommends retailmenot.com "...If you sign up for a mailing list they usually send you discounts to your emails" the same goes for, "aldoshoes.com ( so you can ) get great savings on their shoes."

MalibuMara gives one last tip for shoppers and that is to wait for high priced items at shoe stores and stores like Coach & Zara to be marked down up to 50% off at the end of the month.

Now that you know the do's and don't's of shopping this year, I hope these tips gave you some insight on how to shop smart and still have some money left over so that you can treat yourself to something special!

urs truly,

For more info on fashion blogger MalibuMara you can visit her site : http://malibumara.blogspot.com

..lol.smiley.face..

2009-11-27T15:14:00.000-08:00

mah bo0skie. trey's video to 'lol smiley face' is just another reason why i respect him so much .. he shows love to his fans more than any artist i know..

enjoy! :)