If you're here chances are this site was recommended to you or you justhappened to click your way to this page by chance.

Either way itwasn't a mistake!!..

So please enjoy your stay!

In case youhaven't already glanced my "about me" section I guess it would be appropriate to reiterate it here:

My name is Vincia, its pronounced; (vin-see-ya)

I often get frustrated when people don't say it right..

::Biggie voice:: "So if yadon'tknow, now ya know! "

I'm a 23 yr-old up and coming Journalist from queensNY & the purpose of this blog is just so i can share my thoughts with whoever cares to read them.

If you have any thoughts, concerns, suggestions, questions or comments feel free to drop a few words :)

much love.,


Saturday, January 30, 2010


What your sleeping position says about you ...

Those who curl up in the foetus position are described as tough on the outside but sensitive at heart. They may be shy when they first meet somebody, but soon relax. This is the most common sleeping position, adopted by 41% of the 1,000 people who took part in the survey. More than twice as many women as men tend to adopt this position. 

Lying on your side with both arms down by your side. These sleepers are easy going, social people who like being part of the in-crowd, and who are trusting of strangers. However, they may be gullible.

People who sleep on their side with both arms out in front are said to have an open nature, but can be suspicious, cynical. They are slow to make up their minds, but once they have taken a decision, they are unlikely ever to change it. 

Lying on your back with both arms pinned to your sides. People who sleep in this position are generally quiet and reserved. They don't like a fuss, but set themselves and others high standards. 

Lying on your front with your hands around the pillow, and your head turned to one side. Often gregarious and brash people, but can be nervy and thin-skinned underneath, and don't like criticism, or extreme situations. 

Lying on your back with both arms up around the pillow. These sleepers make good friends because they are always ready to listen to others, and offer help when needed. They generally don't like to be the centre of attention.

click this link to find out more about what your position says about u:
 were the results true? 


even tho the second one is a bit scary looking 
they are both nice photos..

-model : Amber Rose
-photographer : Austin Powers


w t f?

*blank stare*


Wednesday, January 20, 2010


yeah i took it baq!


the highlight of last nights 
bad girls club
...lol hillarious...ENJOY!!

Tuesday, January 19, 2010


which one do u do more frequently???
text or talk???

Monday, January 18, 2010


as we all know hes STILL lookin' for love...
with only 3 girls left this season
who do you think is gonna win???


Mz. Berry



who do you want to win??

Thursday, January 14, 2010


As i was watching CNN my eyes began to form tears for all the people who are suffering in Haiti right now and especially for those who died from this disaster. My prayers go out to the family members who have lost someone and for those whose souls were lost in Haiti. May God be with them all. 


Wednesday, January 13, 2010


Rihanna on the new cover of W magazine.

i love the pics they're definitely more tasteful 
than when she did the cover of GQ..
but thats just my opinion
what u think???


youtube comedian brian recaps 
badgirls ep 6 : hillarious! 


bad girls club ep 6: 
"Paul & Kate plus Hate"

malibu's boyfriend comes to town and gets mixed up
 into the whirlwind of madness at the Bad Girls Club.

Kendra finds a new boy toy.

Flo angrily expresses how kendra was behaving 
like a "slut" and a "whore" in the club.

here is where the drama between 'malibu' 
& 'the chin monster' begin.

flo disrespectfully blows smoke in kendras face&
kendra reacted by slapping flo in the face.

flo responded by giving kendra a manly push.

the girls come and break it up.

shortly afterwards chin monster threatens to throw a plant at malibu 
for throwing her makeup out the window. 

then , chin monster spit in malibus face. *gasp* blank stare...

here is where u would expect me to insert that malibu
 beats natalies chin into the ground but she doesnt (-_-) *blank stare* again

cant wait til next week! lol

Tuesday, January 12, 2010


Friday, January 8, 2010


its been 22 days since ive spoken to HIM. and im happy about that.. (^_^)
my goal is 100 days without any kind of contact with HIM..

when i found myself becoming addicted to someone who showed absolutely no interest in me...

i had to take a step back observe the situation and set a goal for myself...

No talking to HIM for 100 days..no texting. no accepting booty calls. no emails. no pop-up visits. etc.

& its all because of a few encouraging words from you guys i really appreciate all your support.

i know some of you are wondering what will i do after i reach my 100 day mark??., i honestly have no idea... Maybe i'll go out and celebrate! but for right now im just gonna worry about the days ahead..

yesterday i started missing and craving him something serious but i have to do this for myself.

i know i can do it. Once he realizes that i cut him off he'll probably call me and ask me what happen or maybe he'll just move on...

Something deep down inside is hoping that he calls and says that he'll try and treat me better cause hes realized what hes missing out on.

But why is it that when u want them to do something without telling them to do it they never do it??

Chances are he wont change but im hoping he will realize why i cut him off. lets just say this is his time out in the corner to realize what hes done wrong...

only problem with that is him not realizing why i put him on time out in the first place.

urs truly.,

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Wednesday, January 6, 2010


bad girls club episode 5 
"Dont sweat the New B!tch"

two words to describe this episode: PURE trash

this show is seriously like a 
bad car accident on the side of the highway
 u know its bad and u shouldnt stare
 but u slow down and watch anyway.. 

kate began the show openly expressing that she didn't want to go to a "black sweaty" club *blank stare* i had to do a double take like "wtfshejustsay?" she later on apologized and said that she didnt mean anything by it....*side glance* yeah right --anyway ... 

the girls reluctantly welcomed the new chic into the house and that was pretty much it. 

the new girl ... shes not so cute but she seems like she likes to have fun she got naked and hopped in the pool on the first night and of course Florina needed a bib to catch the drool that was dribbling out of her mouth. 

umm what else happened? the girls went out to the club and Natalie came home with some no - name buck-toof dude and let him sleep with her in her bed...im tryna think if i missed anything but everything else that happened is irrelevant the whole episode was irrelevant but i will be tuning in next week lol wont you???

heres the link to the preview for episode 6.

Tuesday, January 5, 2010




eye candy _ Reggie Bush on 
the Feb 2010 cover of Essence Mag...

i dont know bout yall but...
im just sayin!!!

Monday, January 4, 2010


Rihanna allegedly has a new boo and his name is Matt Kemp..(he plays for the LADodgers) they were spotted together today in mexico kissing each others face off...she seems to be having a good time and so does he.. they rang in the new year together in Dubai where Rihanna performed at the Emirates Palace. i think they look go0d together... 
what yall think??