If you're here chances are this site was recommended to you or you justhappened to click your way to this page by chance.

Either way itwasn't a mistake!!..

So please enjoy your stay!

In case youhaven't already glanced my "about me" section I guess it would be appropriate to reiterate it here:

My name is Vincia, its pronounced; (vin-see-ya)

I often get frustrated when people don't say it right..

::Biggie voice:: "So if yadon'tknow, now ya know! "

I'm a 23 yr-old up and coming Journalist from queensNY & the purpose of this blog is just so i can share my thoughts with whoever cares to read them.

If you have any thoughts, concerns, suggestions, questions or comments feel free to drop a few words :)

much love.,


Thursday, December 31, 2009


people seem to always make a big deal about new years eve. 
i dont.
i dont see the point in making a big deal over it , its just another day in my book.
i wont be in times square or at home waiting for the ball to drop., instead i will be in church on my knees praying for a better year to come.  i will be praying for my health, my wealth, my education, my family, my friends, and for better relationships with others.
don't worry i will pray for u guys as well ... anyway with that being said:


with love.,


im trying to follow more than 300 blogs and blogger.com wont let me ...
 is there any way i can follow more than 300 blogs--- 
does anyone know??? HELP ME PLEASE!!! 

Monday, December 28, 2009


woke up today with this throw back on my mind :) 
click play & enjoy..


Yo heh heh tell him it's like uhh you know uhh
Sweet sweet SWEET tell him

Let me be patient let me be kind
Make me unselfish without being blind
Though I may suffer I'll envy it not
And endure what comes
Cause he's all that I got and
tell him...

Tell him I need him [yeah]
Tell him I love him [tell him]
And it'll be alright
Telll himmm be alright be alright
Tell him tell him I need him
Tell him I love him
It'll be alright

Now I may have faith to make mountains fall
But if I lack love then I am nothin' at all
I can give away everything I possess
But left without love then I have no happiness
I know I'm imperfect [I know I'm imperfect]
& not without sin [& not without sin]
But now that I'm older all childish things end
and tell him...

Tell him I need him [yeah]
Tell him I love him [tell him]
And it'll be alright
*Background singing* Telll himmm be alright be alright
Tell him tell him I need him
Tell him I love him
It'll be alright

I'll never be jealous
And I won't be too proud
Cause love is not boastful
Oooh and love is not loud
Tell him I need him
Tell him I love him
Everything's gonna be alright [w/ adlibs]
ieee iee ieee iee iee iee iee iee

Now I may have wisdom and knowledge on Earth
But if I speak wrong then what is it worth?
See what we now know is nothing compared
to the love that was shown when our lives were spared
and tell him...

Tell him I need him [yeah]
Tell him I love him [tell him]
And it'll be alright
Telll himmm be allright be alright
Tell him tell him I need him
Tell him I love him
It'll be alright.

Sunday, December 27, 2009


did u miss me?? lol prolly not --- but thats cool i didn't miss u either ;) 

so basically to sum up my holiday weekend, I spent time with the fam on Christmas day until like 2am- spent majority of my day in bed Saturday, went to church today (came home and then returned to church later on in the evening for a Christmas Program- which was really nice., any event or function that serves food after is a goo0d event to me LoL) but yeah thats about it...nothing overly exciting . 

this weekend i realized how good it is to give and not always hold my hand out expecting to receive.

 [speaking of receiving i didnt receive anything excessive - i got a pair of socks , a daily planner and a scarf :/ but hey whos complaing?? :)  my real gift was the gift of giving <-- that was corny right,  yeah i know. but hey its the truth. to see my fam happy made me happy.]

how was your weekend?? care to share?

Thursday, December 24, 2009


Since i may not be on here tomorrow im wishing everyone a 


and to those who dont celebrate christmas ..

Happy Holidays :)

much love.,

Tuesday, December 22, 2009


this is how i'm feeling right now...

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-i remember last month wen i only had 2.
i ♥ you for following.

much love.,


for the amount of hype that was built around this episode i was not pleased at all...
smh. i shoulda known - i thought the whole show was boring except for the last 5 minutes when portia and natalie fought.
basically natalie implied that portia wasnt a good mom because she never mentioned anything about her daughter and she never called her daughter back.  natalie was toatally out of place for bringing up portias child and she deserved to get her a$s beat i dont care if she got sucker punched or shot the fair one..either way natalie wouldve still lost .. too bad portia got sent home...so long Ms. pencil brows..
"And then there were six..."

urs truly,


Congrats to *mah booskie* Trey Songz 
covering the Jan issue of Honey Magazine!!! 
(see images below)

not exactly what i would call "panty droppin" pics! 
but they are definitely grown man sexy ;)
..what yall think??

click here for the full interview @ HoneyMag.com

Sunday, December 20, 2009


Many of u are following me but few of you KNOW who I really am so I figured I would elaborate on my brief 'about me' section...as you already know I'm an up and coming journalist who has a serious passion for God, fashion, music & anything girly even though I can be a tom boy at times (im down for some sweats and a tshirt any day!)...I live in Queens, New York (born and raised) but i lived in Pennsylvania for almost 4 years while attending Penn State University...

I left school during my senior year and came back to New York due to extreme stress inability to pay my tuition (which was $24,000/yr). That was two years ago and now I'm getting ready to begin a new chapter in my life which is to first and foremost re-attend school  in January of 2010.

2010 will mark a year of new beginnings for me, and i really look forward to it so wish me luck!!!

As far as my "love life" goes I've been talking to this guy since April but he's about to be cut off (if you want to know why click here: ..so.theres.this.guy..). 

Other than what I mentioned above, I live a pretty simple (and boring life) lol., I stay with my family for now (my parents, and my brother who's 21) but I'm working on getting a new car and an apartment of my own soon. I try to attend church every sunday (which is especially difficult when im out partying all night saturday). Hey nobody is perfect! lol I've cut back on my "clubbing/ladies nights out" because I seriously need to save my money for school and my car.

Hopefully this gives you a bit of insight on who I am I will get more into specifics as the days go by... 

Anything else you wanna know??? just ask!! :) 

Much Love.,

Friday, December 18, 2009

..& the winner is..

Since er'body wanna give out awards
\I've decided t0 give a special award of my own to the blogs I LOVE the most based on their overall content& creative layouts.

the blogs i  are as follows:

.Malibu Mara. 
...yup, simone be talking shit 
.The 411 On Everything Glam. 
// Ze! Diary //
Dulce Candy
Her Proverbs 31
♫ the.future.society ♪ - Music|Art|Fashion
♥[.::LiiFE, LOVE, SEX && ALL THAT JAZZ::.]♥ 
[the life & times of ; BONNIE BLUNT$]. 

For those of you who i have listed (above.) 
In order to accept this award
all you have to do is (right click& save) & post it to your blog
 (dont 4get to shout me out) 
& pass it on to the blogs you favor the most...
yup its that simple! No need to thank me, you deserve it my loves!!! ENJOY!! :)

Love, Peace & Hair Grease.
Signing out,

Thursday, December 17, 2009


HOT or NOT???
[comments and reactions below]

Wednesday, December 16, 2009


will you be watching?


If you haven't watched/seen this show already u must have been living under a rock for the past 3weeks!
Last nights episode was crazy and from the looks of it previews and snippets of next weeks episode its going to get even crazier!

In case you havet seen it heres a recap; Natalie the chic who claims she "Runs LA!!" (in episode 2) slapped kendra in the face and kendra did absolutely nothing about it ; of course natalie shouldve gotten sent home but it was up to kendra to make that decison.

Kendra thinks that by keeping Nat in the house and remaining frenz with Nat that she'll have connections and be able to "network" better while in los angeles if she keeps Nat around. Anyway after she made her decision the gurls decide to form pact against nat&kendra because of kendras decision, and nat is obviously happy because she has kendra on her side. 

So now later on in the episode all seven of the girls :
(Annie: Ms.squeaky annoying voice, Portia: Ms. bad weave with drawn on eyebrows, Florina. Ms. Butch aka the motha of the house, Kate: Ms. Malibu Barbie, Amber: Ms.Angry b!tch and of course Natalie Ms. "I RUN LA!" &Kendra the two who got into the first fight of the season and are now bffs for life!) go to a poolside party at a hotel and everything is going fine until about 5 of the girls want to go home so four of the girls minus kendra natalie and Flo get in the car and leave Ms. Butch behind. Butch gets home and flips out on everyone because they left her at the hotel party with nat and kendra. She says she can't trust anyone and basically swears that she can't be frenz with any of them. 

But then, all of a sudden she starts spending time with nat and kendra. Anyway to make a long story short the house is now serparated into two clicks according to Ms. Angry b!tch "there are now two groups the 'classy girls' and the 'trashy girls'" I just can't wait to see Natalie and Portia aka pencil brows go at it in next weeks episode. Omg can't wait !!! Lol.

Bad Girls Club airs on Oxygen Tuesdays @ 10pmEST
...dont miss it! :)

Tuesday, December 15, 2009


to all my new followers! :)


from urs truly,


smh this is a poor cry out for attention...if that was the case she might as well have done the cover for Playboy im not surprised at all that she did this she wouldve been better off making this her album cover perhaps she wouldve gotten more sales...

what??...im just sayin!

Monday, December 14, 2009


lmao did anybody see nicki minaj on 106and park with robin thicke today? 
a HOT mess! 
okay first robin thicke comes out in a tight black velvet suit and performs 'SEX THERAPY' for a crowd of screaming 14-18 year old girls SMH ( A W K W A R D ) then later on in the show he performs 'Shaking it for Daddy' and Nicki Minaj comes out in a tight ugly red sparkling dress with her non matching signature pink extensions all i can say is O M G of course all the guys in the crowd went wild including terrance j who always acts a fool on that show. S M H just another reason why im beginning to think i need to stop watchin BET.... 
 -the end.


in case u havent heard the song yet heres
Robin Thicke f. Nicki Minaj Shakin it for Daddy..

heres the actual performance:


okay so im in a bit of a dilemma and i need your help...who you?? yes you.. lol im a bit iffy about posting my personal business out there for the world to see because it makes me so vulnerable but bare with me as i try to express myself the best way i can...

so theres this guy ive been "dating" since april and im really into him, im sure he knows it but ive never told him ; the reason why i havent said anything is because he hasnt said anything to me ( as far as his feelings goes )... he has never (..maybe once) told me he likes me so im feeling a bit insecure; like "maybe this guy is just not that into me." hes quick to call me when its time for us to have "relations" but as far as us ever going out or doing anything outside the bedroom we dont do much. what i want to know is, 
is this guy into me or is he just after one thing?


[...what u just read above is a post ive been keeping in my drafts for the past couple of days because i've just been too scared to broadcast my true feelings but i feel that if i cant keep it real with you who the hell can i keep it real with?!...]

i already know the answer to my question and ive decided last night after i wrote down the pros and cons of our half a$s relationship.. even tho the pros outweighed the cons// the cons had a lot more meaning to me (for example the pros were more like his physical attributes, but when i looked at the cons ; they affected how i was actually feeling & how he really feels towards me --i will post SOME of the pros and cons below )

PROS: Physically Attractive , strong minded , independent, employed etc.
CONS: never calls/texts me , doesnt care for me, doesnt communicate his feelings etc.

with that being said i need do get over this guy -- cause he is NOT treating me how i should be treated. i know that if i cut him off he will realize that he had a good woman but he f#$%@d up and lost her. 

oh well ....On to the next one!!!

urs truly,

Sunday, December 13, 2009


Ever hate someone to the point of unforgiveness??

I know I have!! But I have learned that if you hold a grudge against someone this can block your blessings from God. Have u been praying to God and you feel like he's not answering? Have you been asking God for a blessing but it just seems like God won't bless you no matter how many times u ask? Well one or both of the following may be happening: 

1) The answer to your question may be "No." or
2) You may be holding a grudge against someone not even knowing it and that could easily block ur blessings from God.

Matthew Chap 5:22-25 (NLT) reads; ...
I say if you are angry with someone, you are subject to judgement ! ..if you are standing before ... God and you suddenly remember that someone has something against u...go and be reconciled with that person. Come to terms quickly with your enemy before it is too late..."

I can admit i am guilty of holding a grudge towards someone and not until i read that scripture did i realize that i am not only hurting that person but i am hurting myself even more , if that person in your life is someone who has done something to harm a loved one or just hates you for no apparent reason or for reasons of his / her own , as hard as it may seem you should forgive them . do you want to reach the gates of heaven only to be turned away because you have hated someone in your heart? [ Matthew 6:15 (NLT) But if you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins. ] No one wants to go to Hell . So, Why not make things right while you are on Earth rather than wait until its too late?

Matthew 5 goes on to say in verse 44 ".. love your enemies, Pray for those who persecute you!"

The best thing you could do is pray for your enemies.

Then sit back and watch the results. 

Regardless of how hard you feel it may be to pray for your enemies do it anyway and watch how God will bless you. 

urs truly,

Saturday, December 12, 2009


mariah f [mah bo0skie] trey songz - inseperable

HOT or NOT???

Friday, December 11, 2009


with christmas exactly two weeks away im just not feeling it - is anyone else feeling like this???
i know u all heard it already a million times before but "we're in a recession &
times are hard!"
 i hope my frenz arent expecting anything this year 'cause i sure aint got the money to be buying gifts.. [i sound so cheap i know!!] hmm ... maybe i'll make something! a trip to Michael's [arts and crafts store] aint neva hurt nobody and besides whenever u make a gift it shows that your giving from your heart and not  from your pocket....i dont know guys 
..any ideas? what are your holiday plans??
 ..what are you getting your fam& frenz for the holidays? let a sista know cause right now im clueless...

Wednesday, December 9, 2009


according to *friends in my head MediaTakeOut.com 
Jay-z and Beyonce 
are moving to Las Vegas!

...does anyone even care? 
i mean me personally i think they BOTH need to lay low for about a year...cus im a little sick of hearing about them - especially B...anyway -- for more info on the move click here

Monday, December 7, 2009


trey songz.one love


Trey Songz f. Usher & Keri Hilson 

 I Invented Sex Remix 

now u know i love any and everything that comes out of treys mouth but as for that stranger b!tch keri hilson i dont know if i like seeing/hearing about her being anywhere near my man! (she betta hope for her sake that she recorded this in a separate studio) lol what? im just sayin!..anyway what are ur thoughts on this remix???

HOT or NOT???
[comment below]


okay so today im on one of my fave sites: necolebitchie.com and i find out that female rappers/entertainers TRINA and NICKI MINAJ celebrated their bdays this past weekend in ATL.. *side note in case u were wondering TRINA is now 31 (she was born dec 3 1978*) and NICKI turns 25 tomorrow, dec 08..

anyway back to the reason why i decided to create this blog; i was looking thru sum pics and low and behold i definitely wasnt surprised when i saw this ...

 i love you nicki but this has got to STOP!!! its NOT cute ; especially wen you got a whole bunch of other chicks in the club posin with the exact same face on!! please if u think u are a barbie or ever called urself one #hoehaveaseat!!! i cant stress the following words enuf : "pretending to be a barbie in real life is NOT cute!! so please please please stop it!!!" 
[ death to the barbie face* ]
... anyway im gone!! on to the next one!!!

urs truly,


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Saturday, December 5, 2009


if i hear of or see one more interview with chris brown or rihanna talkin about their "incident" that happened fifty-eleven years ago...
i am going to SCREAM!!! 
they have officially milked that cow dry + beat it to death resurrected it +  beat it do death again! its a done deal ..we get the point ..move the #@$% on already!!
with that being said: 
You may now return to your regularly scheduled programming :)