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My name is Vincia, its pronounced; (vin-see-ya)

I often get frustrated when people don't say it right..

::Biggie voice:: "So if yadon'tknow, now ya know! "

I'm a 23 yr-old up and coming Journalist from queensNY & the purpose of this blog is just so i can share my thoughts with whoever cares to read them.

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much love.,


Sunday, December 13, 2009


Ever hate someone to the point of unforgiveness??

I know I have!! But I have learned that if you hold a grudge against someone this can block your blessings from God. Have u been praying to God and you feel like he's not answering? Have you been asking God for a blessing but it just seems like God won't bless you no matter how many times u ask? Well one or both of the following may be happening: 

1) The answer to your question may be "No." or
2) You may be holding a grudge against someone not even knowing it and that could easily block ur blessings from God.

Matthew Chap 5:22-25 (NLT) reads; ...
I say if you are angry with someone, you are subject to judgement ! ..if you are standing before ... God and you suddenly remember that someone has something against u...go and be reconciled with that person. Come to terms quickly with your enemy before it is too late..."

I can admit i am guilty of holding a grudge towards someone and not until i read that scripture did i realize that i am not only hurting that person but i am hurting myself even more , if that person in your life is someone who has done something to harm a loved one or just hates you for no apparent reason or for reasons of his / her own , as hard as it may seem you should forgive them . do you want to reach the gates of heaven only to be turned away because you have hated someone in your heart? [ Matthew 6:15 (NLT) But if you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins. ] No one wants to go to Hell . So, Why not make things right while you are on Earth rather than wait until its too late?

Matthew 5 goes on to say in verse 44 ".. love your enemies, Pray for those who persecute you!"

The best thing you could do is pray for your enemies.

Then sit back and watch the results. 

Regardless of how hard you feel it may be to pray for your enemies do it anyway and watch how God will bless you. 

urs truly,


sheiswinterwest said...

i believe we all have been victims of holding grudges. i recently stopped holing grudges and even reconciled with a few ppl. i mean at the end of the day your only hurting yourself walking around with hate in your heart. I'm at a place in my life where i love eveybody and i always pray for my enemies. it's not in my control to down talk anybody or judge if you will. pray & leave it to God.

Nice Post!

ALLiii3.x.X said...

I love this post... it's inspiring and i'm inspired. Keep this up! It's important to forgive others despite how badly they've hurt you or let you down... Big up the brown sisters as well! You speak your beliefs loud and proud! Bless :)

.MochaSista. said...

@sheiswinterwest Thanks! i agree, when u hold it in it just becomes worse with time and before you know it you're lashing out on everybody and u dont even know why ( s m h ) its just not worth it and it just takes too much energy!..thanks for your response girl!

.MochaSista. said...

@Allie thanxx so much gurl u guys dont know how much your comments mean to me, i really appreciate that!.. xoxo :)

Darling Nikky said...

great post! just what i needed to read before starting off my week!

MoreToLife.ThanThis said...

This is a really good post! & very encouraging!